summer pool date ideas

Cool Off With These Pool Date Ideas

When it comes to planning a unique and exciting date, why not make a splash (!) with a pool date? Whether you're looking for a fun and casual pool party or a romantic and intimate swim, a pool date could be your oyster (and we can't promise that's the last pool pun). 

Let’s chat about different pool date ideas, from pool parties to romantic spa pool days, and give you all the tips you need to have a fantastic time at a swimming pool date. 

Why we love a pool date 

Looking for something low-stress and high-fun? Pool dates are a great bet, and here’s why. 

The relaxing vibes: Forget formal dinner dates and all the stress they bring. (Spaghetti or salad? A glass or a bottle?). Poolside dates give you a laid-back setting, ditching the pressure and making way for easy conversation.

Game on: Messing around in the pool or playing poolside games can be fantastic icebreakers and give you lasting memories. 

Get your flirt on: You look amazing in the sunshine and the hot weather is bound to add a sizzle to your date. 

So, pool dates? They can be a refreshing break from dinner-and-a-movie dating and an ocean of possibilities for getting closer to your date.

How to plan a memorable pool date

Pick your pool date style 

First up, think about what kind of vibe you're going for. A private pool offers an intimate setting where it's just the two of you, the water, and the sky.

If you're social butterflies, a community pool or a friend's poolside bash could be the ticket, giving you a chance to mingle with others while still soaking up those moments together. Choose a setting that'll make you both comfortable and ready to dive into fun.

Choose a good day 

The sun's schedule is something you want to keep an eye on. Aim for a date when it promises to be sunny and warm, but not scorching hot. A perfect pool day is about golden sunshine, not damaging our fabulous skin (SPF, always). 

Coordinate with your date 

Not just on the swimwear—we’ll leave that one up to you. Coordinating with your date on what to bring to the pool ensures that you both contribute to creating a comfortable and enjoyable experience. 

Start by dividing the checklist: one can handle the snacks, bringing along light and refreshing treats like watermelon slices, veggie sticks, or chips, while the other takes care of the pool essentials like extra towels, sunscreen, and a Bluetooth speaker for some ambient tunes. 

Remember to cover any special items you both might enjoy, such as a particular game you both love or a floaty big enough for two, adding a personal touch to your date. Don't forget to consider practical items as well, like water bottles to stay hydrated and maybe a portable fan for those extra warm days. 

Essential pool date supplies

Here’s a quick checklist to make sure you're prepped for waves of fun:

The basics: Towels? Check. Sunscreen? Double-check. Shades and pool floats? Quadruple-check. These essentials ensure comfort and fun, so stock up.

The fun stuff: Waterproof card games, anyone? Or perhaps a set of waterproof speakers to stream those summer hits while you splash? Think about bringing a few games to keep the entertainment afloat as you enjoy each other's company.

The snacks: Last but not least, the refreshments. Think fruit-infused iced water, a cooler full of juice boxes, or a spread of light snacks to munch on. You'll want to stay hydrated and energized—pool dates can work up your appetite.

Safety first 

Burned skin and heat strokes are no one's idea of date goals. Here's how you can ensure you're protected.

Sunscreen is a must: Apply a good SPF sunscreen and remind each other to reapply regularly, particularly after swimming. This will not only shelter your skin from harmful UV rays but also emphasize that you're looking out for your date's health.

Hydration is key: Drink plenty of water. Regular hydration offsets the loss of water due to sweltering conditions and keeps you full of energy. Keep a couple of refillable water bottles at hand, and make refreshing, cool drinks a part of your snack pack.

Check in with each other: Pay attention to how you both are feeling. If you or your date start to feel dizzy, excessively sweaty (mmm), or nauseous, it might be time to take a break from the sun. Chill in the shade, drink water, and take a breather. 

Other ways to get your pool date fix 

If a plain old pool isn’t doing it for you, here are some other ways to catch some rays, cool off, and enjoy the weather with your date. 

Feeling adventurous? Check out a water park

If you and your date are thrill-seekers, why not take your pool date to the next level with a visit to a water park? Enjoy the adrenaline rush of water slides, lazy rivers, and wave pools. 

To make the most of this date, start by conducting a little research. Look for local water parks, paying attention to their main attractions. 

Once you have your eye on a specific water park, take your planning up a notch. Review the park's schedule to plan out your day. This way you can ensure that you'll not only enjoy all of the most fun rides but also have time to relax and soak up the atmosphere. Top tip: remember to pack a change of clothes, so you’ll have a more comfortable journey home. 

Plan a relaxing spa day by the pool

For the ultimate relaxation and pampering experience, consider booking a spa day and enjoying the poolside facilities. Many spas offer places to enjoy a swim, soak in a hot tub, or simply lounge by the poolside.

For those days when you're both keen to trade splashing around for soaking in relaxation, a pool date at a spa can float both your boats. Check the spa menu and consider signing up for a massage to top off your day. 

So whether it's a high-energy day at a water park, a relaxing spa pool date, or a lively pool party soiree, each of these ideas opens up an entire ocean of possibilities to make a splash in your dating life. Remember, your pool date can be whatever you want it to be—it's all about the two of you having fun and enjoying each other's company. So grab some (or lots of) sunscreen, floaties, and refreshing snacks, and the next pool date may turn out to be your best one yet.